DEAR JILL, Your list of dislikes mentions unfit guys.
Your list of likes mentions fit,risk taking guys with strong stomachs.
Gee Jill, nerds,geeks, need not apply,right?
Ms Kerry, rooting for the jocks in the film "Revenge of the Nerds". Shame.  

I guess I never read to much into my bio.
I never thought that it could be seen in that way.
Could you define the term "nerds" or "geeks" for me,
two terms which I simply cannot stand.

I think you've mistaken fit with muscle bound. I'm not at all into dating only muscle bound guys. When I say fit, it goes a little further than that. I like camping and hiking
and have met a few guys that get tired really quickly. Maybe I should of said that a lack of stamina
is almost a turn off for me. Some one who is unwilling to do things with me because they are too tired.
I mean if they have worked all day, that's one thing, but on a nice day, when they are off, I like to be active
with them, My last boyfriend was into computers and Magic the gathering heavily, and some may have
considered him a geek, but I considered him my superman because he was willing to do anything for me.
We went hiking together, to the zoo together, and everywhere else together.

As for the fit stomach, well yes, I do like guys with strong stomach, but it's not a determining factor in dating.
If you are really attracted to blondes, and met a really nice red head that you liked, wouldn't you date her?
I'm the same with guys with strong stomachs. I'm more for the personality and love smart guys that I can talk
to and relate to.

BTY, I totally rooted for the nerds in "Revenge of the Nerds"
Hope this clears this up.

Love,

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